When I started talking to them things were slower moving and I was completely fine by that. I was more wanting to wait for the perfect couple. Although things went well they decided to move forward with a different surrogate. They have a toddler already and want to be super involved, which isn't a problem for me. The only problem is the distance between us. I can only imagine the extra hassle it will be to fly back and forth to appointments and etc with a toddler.
I am a little sad that things aren't moving forward but I feel like everything happens for a reason. I am still looking for an IP(s) to carry for but at a much slower pace. I am willing to wait for the right people to carry for.